Pre-Teen

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A challenge for many parents is wanting to help their kids succeed in school but not always knowing how best to do that. When they see a child struggle with homework, where do they start?

A math and science tutor for many years and co-founder of the online tutoring service Virtual Nerd, Leo Shmuylovich recommends that parents first observe their child to assess the problem. “Parents are in a unique position – they can sit down with their child, one-on-one, and devote extra time at home to understanding their child’s needs.Teachers in a busy classroom don’t always get that opportunity or it can take longer in school to identify the student’s need,” says Shmuylovich.

Summer provides quiet time for parents to work with their children on these issues.
Shmuylovich offers these suggestions for parents to help overcome a child’s learning struggles:

Problem:  Poor Review or Test-taking Skills
If your child is doing well on homework but does poorly on written exams, it could mean she has either poor review or test-taking skills.
Solution:  Help your child develop the habit of setting aside time each day to review their work. Parents can also create a mock “high stakes” environment each day during which the student has to solve problems without the help of a textbook or other reference tool. Parents can usually set this up pretty easily then gradually lead the student to do this on their own.

Problem:  Misunderstanding a Current Concept
When their child misunderstands a current concept it can be frustrating for parents as well.  This is the place where parents may have the most difficulty helping kids, since the concept may be new to them too.  
Solution: Try putting your child in the role of teacher and ask them to explain the concept to you, the “student.”  If your child can explain the concept to you well enough, they should be able to handle the related work.  Parents may also want to search online for videos that explain or demonstrate the concept.  For example, Virtual Nerd offers several tutorials that explain and help reinforce math and science concepts.

Problem: Not Enough Practice

Some students don't have enough practice with either current or previous concepts, which becomes evident when they tell you they “can’t remember how to do it.”
Solution:  It can be tough for parents to write out new problems that practice a particular concept. Instead Shmuylovich recommends they seek out additional practice within the text or ask the teacher for specific worksheets or other practice. Sometimes it really is just a matter of repeated execution (the multiplication table comes to mind, but it's the same for A + B = C).


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Local Tutoring Options to Address Skill Gaps


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If you have a child in elementary school, the fundamentals of their education are being learned in these critical early years – or not.

A new book has been published that aims to gives parents guidelines to keep their kids on track, written by Danita Smith, and entitled “Ten Things Your Child Should Know about Reading, Writing, and Math (Pre-K-5th Grade).”

Smith offers lists of skills and activities by grade level which can be used by parents to help avoid "social promotion," and to assess their child's actual development of fundamental skills. There are clear guidelines and expectations for each grade level. along with tips and exercises for improving skills.

"There is a clear need for parents to find time in their day to work on their child's educational development and to make sure their child is progressing properly through school. My book was written for parents as a guide which includes simple tips and techniques to address these issues," she explains.

The inspiration for the book came out of her desire to insure that her son was gaining necessary skills as her family moved, and he was in different school districts.

She holds both a BS and MBA in Business Administration from Florida A&M University and has spent years studying academic standards and ways to effectively implement educational techniques with children.

If you conclude that your child’s falling behind, there are a number of options in our area to pursue. First, set up a meeting with your child’s teacher and ask for assistance.

Remember that if your family has changed school districts during the K-5 grades, there is a good chance that fundamentals have been missed. Some systems focus on drilling grammar fundamentals in 3rd grade; other systems focus on this in the 4th.

The summer is a good time to identify gaps that have developed, such as math skills, sentence structure, vocabulary or creative writing skills, and use fun workbooks that can be purchased inexpensively to use at home during summer mornings before they go out to play.

And, Savannah has several professional companies that offer tutoring assistance, such as Sylvan Learning, Kumon, the Royce Learning Center and Club Z Home Tutoring.

According to Janese Cooper, director of Savannah’s Kumon Math and Reading Center located at Picadilly Shopper Center, 10010Abercorn St., “Parents are the best advocates for their children.” Kumon offers a complimentary assessment of a child’s skill level. They then work to fill in any learning gaps, “and we then start preparing our students for advanced study work,” Cooper explains. “We’re also working on developing concentration and good study skills, which are life skills that parents are seeking for their children.”

At Royce Learning Center, which offers programs 12 months a year, there will also be special summer programs this year for 5th through 12th graders to work on study skills. Two different sessions are available. The courses include organizational, note taking and test taking skills, all of which become increasingly important as students progress into higher grades.

Royce also offers one-on-one tutoring, individualized by what the student needs, and the instructors communicate directly with the child’s school to coordinate needed instruction, as well as with the parents. Individualized rates run from $45 to $50 a hour. Royce receives support from the United Way in order to offer reduced rates, based on need, according to Sally Greenberg, program coordinator at the tutoring center.

Local Tutoring Resources
• Kumon Math & Reading Center (912) 920-8899
• Sylvan Learning Center (912) 355-2267
• Royce Learning Center 912- 354-4047
• Club Z Home Tutoring (912) 351-9644


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Girl Scouts on Target for 20,000 lbs. Donation Goal

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In honor of the Girl Scouts upcoming 100th Birthday Celebration, over 150 local scouts from the Savannah area will deliver donations of clothing and household items to Goodwill Industries of the Coastal Empire, Inc headquartered at 7220 Sallie Mood Drive.

The scouts will officially bring the donations to the Goodwill Industries of the Coastal Empire, Inc. offices on Sat. March 13 as of part of the scouts’ “A Good Turn for Goodwill Day” festivities.

The event is part of a council-wide service project taking place across the state of Georgia.  In addition to the Girl Scouts in the Savannah area, another 95 Girl Scouts will participate in Saturday’s event at the Statesboro Goodwill location and another 150 at the Brunswick main Goodwill location.

According to Joe Driggers, Director of Marketing & Development for Goodwill Industries of the Coastal Empire, Inc, Goodwill Industries provided collection bags for the girls to fill with clothing and household items. Goodwill will also provide a patch to each of the girls for their efforts.

Girl Scouts of Historic Georgia, Inc. is hoping to reach a goal of donating 20,000 pounds of donations by March 13,  and is currently on track to surpass that goal! 

“I cannot over emphasize the importance of a partnership between two 100 year old  non profits,” said Bill Oakley, President/CEO, Goodwill Industries of the Coastal Empire, Inc.

“The Girl Scouts 20,000lb goal has an immediate positive impact on work opportunities and income toward our mission of assisting people with disabilities and other barriers to employment to live independently and become employed across Coastal Georgia,” he added.

“Furthermore, the long term impact of the value created through this program for the girls generous support helps to shape tomorrow’s responsible citizens.”  Oakley said.

Goodwill Industries of the Coastal Empire, Inc. provides job training, employment services, job placement opportunities and post employment support to strengthen communities and families by training people to become independent, tax-paying members of society.  Those services include ADVANCE, a community re-entry program for people with acquired brain injury. When someone is having a hard time finding a job– either because of a disability, poverty or lack of experience, Goodwill is there to help.


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The Coastal Empire Council Boy Scouts of America will be celebrating the 100th anniversary of scouting with a local event called “Scout Fest” on Sat., March 20 from 10am to 4pm at the Taro DZ at Fort Stewart in Bryan County.

The public is invited to see Scout games and competitions and Coast Guard helicopter demonstrations, and learn about scouting. There will be a trading post featuring 100th anniversary commemorative items, and parents can register their boys in scouting that day for Savannah area troops.

Across Georgia, many of Georgia’s state parks will get help cleaning up its facilities thanks to the Boy Scouts. A new partnership has been announced as part of the Boy Scouts of America’s 100th anniversary, with the young volunteers teaming up with the Georgia Department of Natural Resources to complete service projects such as trail construction, grounds cleanup and playground installation.  

“Scouting for State Parks” was announced in February at the state Capitol with support from Gov. Sonny Perdue; the project is funded in part by a donation from Verizon Wireless.

The program brings together thousands of youth, leaders and volunteers from Boy Scout groups across Georgia.  Each of the state’s 13 councils has committed to undertake a large-scale service project for a local state park during 2010.  Additionally, the councils will encourage youth pursuing Eagle Scouts to perform their capstone service project in a state park.  Annually in Georgia, 1,200 youth earn Scouting’s highest rank.

According to Barbara Foley, the Learning for Life program director with the Coastal Empire Council Boy Scouts of America, a number of local troops will be participating.

 “For 100 years, Scouts have served Georgia’s communities,” said Scouting’s Georgia State President Scott Sorrels.  “Now, during Scouting’s Centennial, we’re focusing our resources like never before to address a critical need – the budget crisis in our state parks.”

 
Economic challenges have forced many of Georgia’s state parks to rely heavily on volunteers, cancel improvement projects and forgo much-needed maintenance.  The partnership will help the agency provide better facilities and outdoor recreation opportunities to Georgia’s citizens and visitors.

“We are proud to announce this partnership that helps us improve state parks all across Georgia, and also gives young men a sense of community and accomplishment,” said Department of Natural Resources Commissioner Chris Clark.  “We couldn’t do it without the generous support of Verizon Wireless, our governor and our leaders in the state legislature.”
For more information on Scout Fest, go to www.bsasavannah.org.


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By Mary Jo Rapini

It is amazing how fast little girls are growing up; at times it's even frightening. What's a mom to do when her 12-year-old daughter wants to wear makeup?
Telling her she can't wear makeup until she is older is probably only going to make her want to rebel. She may even develop feelings of shame associated with it. Soon your 12-year-old may be putting her makeup on when she gets to school or the mall or a friend's house to "hide" her activity from you. This will only build a wall in your interaction and communication with her.
A better approach is to have a heart-to-heart talk. To put both of you at ease, go for a walk or sit in an ice cream shop or wherever the two of you can go to talk without interruptions. Ask her WHY she wants to wear makeup. Does it make her feel prettier? More confident about her looks? Or is she just trying to "fit in"? Your daughter may be concerned about her skin and feels makeup covers unsightly acne scars or other flaws. This is a difficult time of changes, both physically and emotionally. Physically, as the face grows, it isn't uncommon for different parts of the face to look exaggerated as compared to other parts. And emotionally, she is starting to try and figure out who she is and how she can be like all her peers.
It is important that your daughter feel like she can talk to you honestly about her concerns and that you won't dismiss them as being foolish and not important. If she is concerned about her skin texture or acne, it would be wise to see a dermatologist with her.
If you are OK with occasional use of makeup, I encourages moms to plan a "girl's weekend" and take a makeup class together. Many times the reasons young girls over-do makeup is because they were not taught the "correct way" to apply it. They are heavy handed with eye liner and mascara because they copy their peers (who are not taught the correct way) instead of understanding how makeup is meant to enhance their skin and features.
When you talk with your daughter prior to disciplining her or discouraging her from wearing makeup, you should make it clear that you care about how she feels in regards to her looks. She needs to feel supported by you instead of shamed. She will feel better about herself because she knows you understand how she feels.
This is also a good time to identify how you felt during that time of your life. You can tell her how "too much makeup" makes her look and how it may make others react. Too much makeup is not necessarily going to make her look like she is more grown up. The way to achieve looking more grown up is to be confident in your own skin.
By listening to your daughter, not judging her, and offering her your support, you will be in a much better position to help her build that confidence.

Mary Jo Rapini is a psychotherapist and co-author of the book “Start Talking: A Girl's Guide for You & Your Mom.” This easy-to read, lively, down-to-earth book is teen-friendly and is ideal to help both mothers and daughters have engaging conversations about tough topics (www.maryjorapini.com).
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